This is the Menopause Faery. She has nothing to commend herself with apart from enduring the very worst torment MotherNature can lob on her...

She feels a lot like me... a lot like any of us femmes over 43-46. Poor bloody bugger. You guys just have no concept how this all feels...

This Faery needs your patient understanding, and your silence.... most of all your silence because the very thing which lights the dreadful furnace inside her is some silly bloody man suggesting to her...in the middle of the heat that "You look so nice with your hair up...why don't you put it up now"

NOW! In the middle of one of those flushes..forget the crap about "Power surges...

Any man stupid enough to suggest this to a fully Menopausal woman is an idiot!!! pure and simple.


So give this faery the respect she deserves and the space she needs to spread her wings and keep herself cool with them.